Proverbs 31:10-12 "An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life."
Wow. A tall order indeed. What's the first step in even beginning to accomplish something like this? I think it's summed up in one large and weighty word, submission.
Some of you just rolled your eyes, some of you just muttered, "Oh, she's one of those." I get it, I used to do the same thing. I thought that being submissive was something that didn't apply to me and my marriage. It was something that was dated and we as women had moved past that and into equality with our spouses in the authoritative role.
I was wrong. I was wrong because that's not what God's Word says about being a wife. Galatians 5:22-24 says, "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands."
1 Peter 3:1-2 says, "Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct."
Titus 2: 3-5 says, "Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanders or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled."
Starting to see a pattern? Submission is not optional, not if you believe that God's Word is truth. Are you struggling in this area of your marriage? Do you wonder how to live this out? You are not alone. Pray that God would give you a desire to be submissive to your husband as an act of obedience to Him. See what He can do in your life and in your marriage when you choose to obey in this area.